No apologies necessary

We go out of our way to avoid hurting people's feelings; the last thing we want is strife between us and someone else. However, Paul understood the importance and the impact that piercing words would have on an individual, and he was more than ready to use them if necessary. Making a reference to their correction from past sin, Paul said, in 2 Corinthians 7:8-9, "Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not regret it … not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led to repentance."

Political correctness and tact always have their place in conversation, but when a person's immortal soul is at stake, manners must be put aside in favor of godly sorrow. Jesus warned His followers that "anyone who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me" (Matthew 10:37). What is our attitude in delivering news about spiritual status to others? Are we hesitant to tell them because of the sorrow it might bring? When is a convenient time to tell them? We must act now, put feelings aside, and approach them as a loving brother or sister that is concerned about their eternal soul.

Brady Cook